Forgiveness and Acceptance

A quick review of Matthew 18:15-17 reveals the fundamentals of how to work out issues between people. The principle is pretty simple...when you have an issue with what someone has said or done, talk to them about it. Of course there are other instructions there that help to clarify what should happen if sinful actions are involved and the person won't listen to you. But that's not my point here.
I've found that when I am bold enough to actually follow this principle I am usually greeted with understanding, acceptance and even a free flow of communication. That doesn't mean that there is always agreement about the issue. But at least when one on one exchange takes place there is mutual understanding and often a much better relationship as a result.
There are times that perhaps I'm too bold in addressing those disagreements. I hope that can be forgiven as people understand my motive. I try hard not to press others to believe the same way I do about something. In fact, I've been proven wrong about many things and have changed my mind because of the free flowing communication that resulted from one on one conversations.
When it comes to forgiveness the absolute best way to handle it is one on one conversation that reveals the heart. Hopefully that kind of interaction and exchange will lead to acceptance between individuals even when they disagree with each other.

Moving Forward

What does it mean to move forward? In the strictest sense it means not to move backward or to the side. But sometimes, in order to overcome an obstacle that stands in the way of progress we have to back up and try a different route.
For instance, when I was on a field exercise with a forward operating radar unit we were assigned the task of taking a particular spot of ground that would be used as our base of operations. We were only about 300 yards from the site but were faced with thick woods and a rather daunting crevasse between us and that open spot. After some initial reconnaissance it became obvious that the best way to accomplish our goal was to back out of our position and find another entrance from a different direction. While it took us a long time to gain that ground, the alternate route proved more than acceptable for the vehicles that would follow and the ability to defend our route.
As I look at the challenges that face my own spiritual growth I often find that the best way to move forward is to retreat, reconsider and re-attack. Perhaps it entails a new look at an old passage. Maybe it means finding a different place to serve. Or it could even mean going over the same ground with a renewed purpose.
The truth is, my spiritual progress is slow at best. But it is NOT dependent on me always moving forward. It IS based however on whether or not I'm willing to allow the Lord to be the Point Man. He, after all, has the eternal GPS that shows the best route to the destination.
My Lord and my God, lead me in the paths of righteousness that You have prepared. Help me to remain focused on the footprints You have set and to trust Your directions. Help me to be a willing follower as You carry me through the places I cannot navigate. Allow me Lord to humbly accept the pace and direction You have cast. Amen.