Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Sadly but Certainly
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Monday, July 12, 2010
Need to be needed
In my recreational reading I’ve been engrossed in a book entitled, “The Essential Church”. It’s a book written by Sam and Thom Rainer who have done a great deal of research concerning church growth and the patterns within the religions of our nation. This particular work is focused on trying to regain those who were once members but have chosen to “drop out”, particularly those in the 18 to 22 year old range.
In that book the Rainer’s point out what ought to be obvious to us. People simply will not stay in a church where they don’t feel important or needed. In other words, in order to simply maintain the members that are already there, we have to make sure they have meaningful things to be involved in and know that they are important to the success of the work that is going on.
As I read that section of the book I began to think about our congregation and whether or not we have made it clear to everyone that they are loved, appreciated and truly needed. Almost every week we have people visiting our assembly. When they walk through the door what do they experience? Do they see a group of Christians that are really engaged with each other and happy to be working arm in arm for the Lord? Or do they see a bunch of individuals who come in, sit in “their” seat and hurry out after the last “amen” so they can get on with life?
When YOU walk through the doors what do YOU see? Do you feel like you are a valuable part of what’s happening here? Have you “pulled back” from the work you once did? Are you going out of your way to make sure others really feel welcome, and know they are loved and needed?
It’s often the case that the leaders don’t make clear the things that need to be done in a congregation. But it’s also often the case that we as members don’t ask the leaders for an assignment or task.
We probably all feel like every person here is important. But we probably don’t all feel like we’re needed. As we look to the future we see challenges to our abilities because of our age or because we are tired, poor, lonely or (you fill in the blank). But the truth is the more individual members choose to be active with the group of Christians the more work we can accomplish and the happier we will all be.
YOU need to know…you loved AND needed! (Dan Boggs)
In that book the Rainer’s point out what ought to be obvious to us. People simply will not stay in a church where they don’t feel important or needed. In other words, in order to simply maintain the members that are already there, we have to make sure they have meaningful things to be involved in and know that they are important to the success of the work that is going on.
As I read that section of the book I began to think about our congregation and whether or not we have made it clear to everyone that they are loved, appreciated and truly needed. Almost every week we have people visiting our assembly. When they walk through the door what do they experience? Do they see a group of Christians that are really engaged with each other and happy to be working arm in arm for the Lord? Or do they see a bunch of individuals who come in, sit in “their” seat and hurry out after the last “amen” so they can get on with life?
When YOU walk through the doors what do YOU see? Do you feel like you are a valuable part of what’s happening here? Have you “pulled back” from the work you once did? Are you going out of your way to make sure others really feel welcome, and know they are loved and needed?
It’s often the case that the leaders don’t make clear the things that need to be done in a congregation. But it’s also often the case that we as members don’t ask the leaders for an assignment or task.
We probably all feel like every person here is important. But we probably don’t all feel like we’re needed. As we look to the future we see challenges to our abilities because of our age or because we are tired, poor, lonely or (you fill in the blank). But the truth is the more individual members choose to be active with the group of Christians the more work we can accomplish and the happier we will all be.
YOU need to know…you loved AND needed! (Dan Boggs)
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
July 4th
Fireworks, picnics, beach parties and sunburns are a large part of many July 4th celebrations. I wonder how many folks take the time sometime on the 4th to explain to their children what we are really celebrating. How many of us take a few minutes out of the day to say a special prayer of thanks for the freedom that is ours? Like so many of our national and state holidays, it doesn’t take very long for us to forget about what is being celebrated and just enjoy the time away from our routine.
The Lord understood the problem that people have that allows them to forget significant events the further they get away from them. Whenever He would declare a holiday He made sure to remind the people to take the time to teach following generations about the purpose. For instance, Exodus 12 records for us the origin of the Passover Feast. It was to be celebrated each year on the same day. Very specific instructions were given concerning what foods they were to use, how they were to dress and even how much food to prepare. But those weren’t the only instructions they were given.
“When you enter the land that the Lord will give you as he promised, observe this ceremony. And when your children ask you, ‘What does this ceremony mean to you?’ then tell them, ‘It is the Passover sacrifice to the Lord, who passed over the houses of the Israelites in Egypt and spared our homes when He struck down the Egyptians” (Ex 12:24-27). That’s right, God made sure that the REASON for the holiday would be passed down through the generations as well as the celebration itself.
In Paul’s third person recollection of the first Lord’s Supper, he tells us that the Lord indicated the bread and cup were to be taken as an ongoing memorial to the freedom Christ granted us through His death (1 Cor 11:23-26). The implication is that the REASON for celebration and the celebration are to live on throughout the generations.
This year we just happen to celebrate our national independence the same day we celebrate our spiritual freedom. Let’s be sure that we pass on to the generations that follow us the significance of both those celebrations…with major emphasis on the spiritual battle that Jesus won through His death, burial and resurrection. You are loved. (Dan Boggs)
The Lord understood the problem that people have that allows them to forget significant events the further they get away from them. Whenever He would declare a holiday He made sure to remind the people to take the time to teach following generations about the purpose. For instance, Exodus 12 records for us the origin of the Passover Feast. It was to be celebrated each year on the same day. Very specific instructions were given concerning what foods they were to use, how they were to dress and even how much food to prepare. But those weren’t the only instructions they were given.
“When you enter the land that the Lord will give you as he promised, observe this ceremony. And when your children ask you, ‘What does this ceremony mean to you?’ then tell them, ‘It is the Passover sacrifice to the Lord, who passed over the houses of the Israelites in Egypt and spared our homes when He struck down the Egyptians” (Ex 12:24-27). That’s right, God made sure that the REASON for the holiday would be passed down through the generations as well as the celebration itself.
In Paul’s third person recollection of the first Lord’s Supper, he tells us that the Lord indicated the bread and cup were to be taken as an ongoing memorial to the freedom Christ granted us through His death (1 Cor 11:23-26). The implication is that the REASON for celebration and the celebration are to live on throughout the generations.
This year we just happen to celebrate our national independence the same day we celebrate our spiritual freedom. Let’s be sure that we pass on to the generations that follow us the significance of both those celebrations…with major emphasis on the spiritual battle that Jesus won through His death, burial and resurrection. You are loved. (Dan Boggs)
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Yes...I'm still here!
I was reminded yesterday that it has been a LOOOOOOOONG time since I posted to this blog. No excuses...just haven't gotten to it.
My weekend was full of reminders of how blessed I am. Included in the weekend was a visit with some people from my first full-time ministry. They supported Sue and me so well during those early days. Their love and encouragement continues to be a cherished part of our life. In fact, the support those three elders gave to me in the early days set the standard by which we measure our relationship with elders today.
I am constantly reminded of how blessed I am with relationships of people God has put in my way. From elders and their wives to members that continue to love us over many years we have been given in every church we've served.
Thank you Lord for godly people who show their love for you by showing their love for us!
My weekend was full of reminders of how blessed I am. Included in the weekend was a visit with some people from my first full-time ministry. They supported Sue and me so well during those early days. Their love and encouragement continues to be a cherished part of our life. In fact, the support those three elders gave to me in the early days set the standard by which we measure our relationship with elders today.
I am constantly reminded of how blessed I am with relationships of people God has put in my way. From elders and their wives to members that continue to love us over many years we have been given in every church we've served.
Thank you Lord for godly people who show their love for you by showing their love for us!
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Interesting but...
Today I became a victim! No...it wasn't a hate crime or violence or even being left alone...instead my e-mail was hacked...and now I'm hacked!!!
I have no idea how this stuff happens. All I know is my e-mail address was used to harass my friends, family and business associates. Now, as a result of this event my e-mail has been cut off, keeping me from communicating with people I love, people that I need to talk with. It really stinks...
The fact is, this hacking event is very much like what happens in our daily lives. Satan finds a way to hack into our lives, working hard at stealing our personal relationships. He poses as someone he's not. He lies in order to get what he wants. He uses others to cut us off from the ONE that we really need.
My e-mail will recover. I'll get a new address and I'll press on as if never hacked. But Satan's attack will continue...relentless attacks...hacking into our lives and stealing our joy. But our Lord is better protection than any anti-virus program ever thought of being. As Paul says, "I am convinced that NOTHING can separate me from the love of God through Christ Jesus!" (Romans 8).
I have no idea how this stuff happens. All I know is my e-mail address was used to harass my friends, family and business associates. Now, as a result of this event my e-mail has been cut off, keeping me from communicating with people I love, people that I need to talk with. It really stinks...
The fact is, this hacking event is very much like what happens in our daily lives. Satan finds a way to hack into our lives, working hard at stealing our personal relationships. He poses as someone he's not. He lies in order to get what he wants. He uses others to cut us off from the ONE that we really need.
My e-mail will recover. I'll get a new address and I'll press on as if never hacked. But Satan's attack will continue...relentless attacks...hacking into our lives and stealing our joy. But our Lord is better protection than any anti-virus program ever thought of being. As Paul says, "I am convinced that NOTHING can separate me from the love of God through Christ Jesus!" (Romans 8).
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
God's Ways
As I think back over the events and decisions of the last few weeks I find myself contemplating a passage from the Book of Isaiah. Eugene Peterson translated it this way in The Message: "'I don't think the way you think. The way your work isn't the way I work.' God's Decree. 'For as the sky soars high above the earth, so the way I work surpasses the way you work, and the way I think is beynd the way you think.'" (55:8-9).
We have NO IDEA how God has orchestrated the things that have happened. Some bring us to tears as we think about them. The death of my father carries with it the pain of separation but the overwhelming joy of knowing he's with Jesus. Other events make us scrath our head in wonder as we look at the timing and answers to what we've asked for.
As I've made preparations for my move to Van, TX I've seen again that God's ways and thoughts far exceed what I could ever achieve. He has worked in the lives of the leaders of the church I'm leaving to move the church forward without so much as a single missed day of full-time ministry. With their decision to employ a dear friend with a heart for God's people they have done a slingshot leap forward.
Oh sure, there are those critics who say, "We didn't get a vote!" But they haven't heard the prayers of the leaders as they petitioned God for wisdom, guidance and answers. They haven't stopped to think about the bigger picture of the entire congregation and the unique needs that are presented in ministry to this body.
God's ways are ALWAYS far beyond our feeble imaginations. His thoughts constantly run circles around what we could ever dream up. We simply have the challenge of stepping back and letting His ways direct our paths as we serve Him and the people He put in our way.
Monday, February 8, 2010
Anticipation
Life continues to bring new opportunities and with each one we can choose to anticipate the best or dread the worst. In my line of work it's easy to become cynical and find the things that are "wrong" with the church and the people that are part of it. But the truth is, if we'll accept that fact that every human being has their own way of doing things, their own style, beliefs, biases and desires, then we'll go a long way toward putting aside the judment that sends us toward the dark side of dread.
I am anticipating with great excitement the change that is coming in our life. We are about to move from a city of over 200,000 to a town of about 3,000. I'll be working with a church of about 120 instead of 220. We could wring our hands and worry about the services that aren't available in that small town or we can choose to settle in to the lifestyle that comes with being removed from the hustle and bustle of the larger city. We could worry about whether or not there will be enough people and money to do the things the church needs to do or we can look forward to unifying the body for involvement that in percentages far exceeds what most churches experience.
Anticipation brings excitement and renewed strength. Dread pulls us down and blocks our desire to move forward. As we anticipate our new home, work and area of play we are excited for the opportunities we have been presented.
I am anticipating with great excitement the change that is coming in our life. We are about to move from a city of over 200,000 to a town of about 3,000. I'll be working with a church of about 120 instead of 220. We could wring our hands and worry about the services that aren't available in that small town or we can choose to settle in to the lifestyle that comes with being removed from the hustle and bustle of the larger city. We could worry about whether or not there will be enough people and money to do the things the church needs to do or we can look forward to unifying the body for involvement that in percentages far exceeds what most churches experience.
Anticipation brings excitement and renewed strength. Dread pulls us down and blocks our desire to move forward. As we anticipate our new home, work and area of play we are excited for the opportunities we have been presented.
Friday, January 29, 2010
Celebrating life
Last Thursday (Jan 21st) my Daddy took his last breath. After a long night of very labored breathing a sunbeam fell on his face he took one last deep breath and it was done. Within a few minutes we were all gathered around his bed and my mother led the most beautiful prayer of thanksgiving I have ever heard. Instead of asking why; instead of cursing God for taking her partner of 71 years; instead of wondering outloud what would come next she gave thanks for the long life they shared together and for the many years of service Daddy had given to others.
Yes...there is a huge hole in my heart. Yes...I often break down in tears. But as I reflect on the lessons that he taught me, as I think about the life he lived, I can't help but celebrate the fact that he is safe in the arms of Jesus, conversing with the faithful men and women of old and finally realizing just how many people he influenced for good.
Thank you Lord for giving me a Daddy that taught me about your goodness. Thank you for giving me a Daddy that affirmed my worth. Thank you for giving me parents that loved each other and thier children no matter what swirled around them. Thank you for allowing him to be with You!
Yes...there is a huge hole in my heart. Yes...I often break down in tears. But as I reflect on the lessons that he taught me, as I think about the life he lived, I can't help but celebrate the fact that he is safe in the arms of Jesus, conversing with the faithful men and women of old and finally realizing just how many people he influenced for good.
Thank you Lord for giving me a Daddy that taught me about your goodness. Thank you for giving me a Daddy that affirmed my worth. Thank you for giving me parents that loved each other and thier children no matter what swirled around them. Thank you for allowing him to be with You!
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Life's Lessons
The time I've been both dreading and longing for is coming very quickly now. My dad has become mostly unresponsive and either unable or unwilling to eat. People who visit cannot arouse him adn the nursing staff is unable to get him out of bed. Perhaps he has chosen or willed himself to live this long and has finally run out of will. Perhaps the Lord has been using him for these last many months to remind us all that He is the one that's in control. I'm not sure about it all but I am sure of something else.
For parts of 10 decades my dad has graced this planet. During his lifetime our nation has experienced unprecedented technological change. What was in his childhood a side show of barnstorming now has commercial air passenger service flying many millions of miles each year. What existed only in the radio theater during his teen years now has become the reality of continuing space travel and even a humans walking on the moon. The war to end all wars ended in his early childhood and he saw the effects of the second one.
Even though his early years were marked with the death of both his parents and a move to an Orphan's Home, he chose not to be bitter or spiteful...instead he accepted the opportunities that were given him through State assistance and Christian Orphan's Home guidance and became a well educated educator, ultimately completing a Master's Degree.
But what was more important to him was his life's work, his passion, his chosen profession. Yes he was an educator but the lessons he poured himself into had nothing to do with the 3 R's. Even though he taught those things what he really cared about was teaching others about his Lord and Savior. I sat through countless sermons that he taught...while I admittedly didn't pay as close attention as I should have I remember his teachings, I recall his intonation and the emphasis he put on certain phrases and words. But most of all I remember the lessons he taught through his daily life.
As my Daddy makes preparation for his final breath he is still teaching a most valuable lesson. He has remained gracious and graceful through his ordeal. He has taught others to pray even as he could hardly stay awake long enough to converse. He has treated others with respect even though they tried to ignore him. He has loved his bride of 71 years to the end and showed his children how to be respectable citizens of the nation of their birth as well as the Kingdom of God.
So as you approach that great white throne Daddy, do so with the knowledge that your lessons will live on in the lives and teaching of people close to you and people you never met. Hold your head high as you meet our Lord with the full expectation that He will say to you, "Well done good and faithful servant, enter into eternal life."
I love you Daddy!
For parts of 10 decades my dad has graced this planet. During his lifetime our nation has experienced unprecedented technological change. What was in his childhood a side show of barnstorming now has commercial air passenger service flying many millions of miles each year. What existed only in the radio theater during his teen years now has become the reality of continuing space travel and even a humans walking on the moon. The war to end all wars ended in his early childhood and he saw the effects of the second one.
Even though his early years were marked with the death of both his parents and a move to an Orphan's Home, he chose not to be bitter or spiteful...instead he accepted the opportunities that were given him through State assistance and Christian Orphan's Home guidance and became a well educated educator, ultimately completing a Master's Degree.
But what was more important to him was his life's work, his passion, his chosen profession. Yes he was an educator but the lessons he poured himself into had nothing to do with the 3 R's. Even though he taught those things what he really cared about was teaching others about his Lord and Savior. I sat through countless sermons that he taught...while I admittedly didn't pay as close attention as I should have I remember his teachings, I recall his intonation and the emphasis he put on certain phrases and words. But most of all I remember the lessons he taught through his daily life.
As my Daddy makes preparation for his final breath he is still teaching a most valuable lesson. He has remained gracious and graceful through his ordeal. He has taught others to pray even as he could hardly stay awake long enough to converse. He has treated others with respect even though they tried to ignore him. He has loved his bride of 71 years to the end and showed his children how to be respectable citizens of the nation of their birth as well as the Kingdom of God.
So as you approach that great white throne Daddy, do so with the knowledge that your lessons will live on in the lives and teaching of people close to you and people you never met. Hold your head high as you meet our Lord with the full expectation that He will say to you, "Well done good and faithful servant, enter into eternal life."
I love you Daddy!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
ThAnKfUl Beyond Imagination!
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving day. You remember...it's the day when the stuffed turkey is consumed and the consumers are stuffed. It's the day when football overwhelms even the most fanatic fan and afternoon naps become mandatory activities. It's a day for family, friends and friends and family. And it's a day to remember all the ways we have been blessed...even when there are things in life that don't seem like such a blessing.
As I reflect on all that I have to be thankful for I am quickly overwhelmed. I have an amazing wife who, for almost 35 years has made sure I've been #1 in her life. I've watched as she cared for our children, consoled friends and laughed at my stupid jokes. There is not a man alive that has been more blessed by his wife than I have! It's true...I married WAY above my head!!!
I have three children who, in spite of my best efforts and poor parenting skills have become GREAT people. Each one contributes to the welfare of their community and works hard on a daily basis. They are awesome aunts and uncle and even better parents. But more than that, they actually think I am a great dad.
I have siblings that still talk with each other and actually share the same parents. Each one of them has lived a life full of giving and honoring our parents in the only way we know how.
My aged parents (91 & 90) celebrate their 71st wedding anniversary today, the day before Thanksgiving. They passed on to me a fundamental faith in God and respect for authority that has kept me out of prison and gainfully employed for the 53 years of my life. Their example of how to love gave me the foundation for my own marriage and parenthood mistakes.
But above all of that...I have a God that loved me enough to die for me. Instead of striking me dead for defying Him, He became a man so He could better understand why I do what I do. Then He allowed Himself to be killed so that He and I could have a relationship!
I'm telling you...life does NOT get any better than that! Friends and family, family and friends...all brought together because God gave Himself. Thank you Jesus for loving me in spite of myself!
As I reflect on all that I have to be thankful for I am quickly overwhelmed. I have an amazing wife who, for almost 35 years has made sure I've been #1 in her life. I've watched as she cared for our children, consoled friends and laughed at my stupid jokes. There is not a man alive that has been more blessed by his wife than I have! It's true...I married WAY above my head!!!
I have three children who, in spite of my best efforts and poor parenting skills have become GREAT people. Each one contributes to the welfare of their community and works hard on a daily basis. They are awesome aunts and uncle and even better parents. But more than that, they actually think I am a great dad.
I have siblings that still talk with each other and actually share the same parents. Each one of them has lived a life full of giving and honoring our parents in the only way we know how.
My aged parents (91 & 90) celebrate their 71st wedding anniversary today, the day before Thanksgiving. They passed on to me a fundamental faith in God and respect for authority that has kept me out of prison and gainfully employed for the 53 years of my life. Their example of how to love gave me the foundation for my own marriage and parenthood mistakes.
But above all of that...I have a God that loved me enough to die for me. Instead of striking me dead for defying Him, He became a man so He could better understand why I do what I do. Then He allowed Himself to be killed so that He and I could have a relationship!
I'm telling you...life does NOT get any better than that! Friends and family, family and friends...all brought together because God gave Himself. Thank you Jesus for loving me in spite of myself!
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Answers
Someone has correctly said, "Be careful what you ask for!" Well, I asked for an answer and I got it...unfortunately it wasn't the answer I was expecting OR wanting. But it is an answer and I will find a way to "rejoice and be glad in it". I trust that my God has something else in store for me, perhaps right where I'm living and working...and whatever it is will be better than what we ever imagined.
I had to smile when I got the call that they had chosen someone else. It's almost as if we had made an assumption that there wasn't anyone but us that could fill that position. As I look back on it I see the folly of that notion. There was nothing else that I could have done to make the outcome different. Oh sure, I could play the game like Abraham did and force the answer I wanted (even though that sounds very arrogant as I write it), but then it would have been my answer instead of God's.
For all of you who have been praying for and about us, thank you. Keep the prayers going as you move through your busy schedules. Keep on talking with our great God about my attitude and my work. I need your prayers just as I'm certain you need mine. And if you happen to be in the Rockford, IL area, we'd love to see you!
I had to smile when I got the call that they had chosen someone else. It's almost as if we had made an assumption that there wasn't anyone but us that could fill that position. As I look back on it I see the folly of that notion. There was nothing else that I could have done to make the outcome different. Oh sure, I could play the game like Abraham did and force the answer I wanted (even though that sounds very arrogant as I write it), but then it would have been my answer instead of God's.
For all of you who have been praying for and about us, thank you. Keep the prayers going as you move through your busy schedules. Keep on talking with our great God about my attitude and my work. I need your prayers just as I'm certain you need mine. And if you happen to be in the Rockford, IL area, we'd love to see you!
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Waiting...waiting...waiting
What an amazing weekend we had! We got to meet Christians in Lewisville, TX who opened their arms to us and made us feel very much at home. They listened intently, asked great questions and didn't seem intimidated to answer our questions at all. We got to spend time looking over the area AND even got a few minutes with Crystal! What a blessing to hear what's going on in her life and her EXCITING news. Congrats my dear daughter (You can check her blog to get the news...)
Now we get to wait a little longer to determine what's next in our life. It could be that God has chosen for nothing to change for us...or it could be that there are changes in store. Either way I have been blessed beyond measure by getting to spend some time getting to know even more Christians.
Thank you Lord for giving us such an AWESOME family!
Now we get to wait a little longer to determine what's next in our life. It could be that God has chosen for nothing to change for us...or it could be that there are changes in store. Either way I have been blessed beyond measure by getting to spend some time getting to know even more Christians.
Thank you Lord for giving us such an AWESOME family!
Monday, October 12, 2009
Closer?
It's been an interesting few months. Several of my close friends are without work due to layoffs with the downturn in the economy. Some have been without work for several months. Some are starting to pick up some interviews and some have actually gotten jobs. Through all of this I've been bouncing back and forth with my own decisions about the future. As each day passes I come closer to my final choice and more sure of the decision that's been made. Now for the more difficult part of this whole process...waiting until it's final and official. As I draw closer to being closer I'm reminded that my God wants just exactly that...for me to draw closer to Him in every way. So with that no so subtle reminder my prayer is simple...Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer precious Lord. Allow me to be at peace with Your time frame and Your amazing love and care.
Friday, October 2, 2009
UGGGGHHHH!
I suppose that waiting has never been my strong suit. It probably isn't high on anyone's list of things most liked. Right now I'm finding myself very impatient with waiting for an answer. Frankly, it's not very becomming of me to show such little patience...but honesty must prevail as I open my life for others to see.
Do you remember as a kid how long it was from one birthday to the next? Do you recall having to wait until Christmas came to get to open the presents under the tree? Well, that's what I'm experiencing right now. I think I know the answer to what I'm waiting for. But until that answer comes it's hard not be anxious.
Yes, I know, the Lord told us not be anxious or worry about anything. Yes, I'm aware that patience is one of the ingredients of the fruit of the Spirit. That doesn't mean that I've mastered the art of waiting without undue concern. I thought I'd gotten better at that until now...It's been less than 2 weeks since my last contact and for some reason I think they should have made a decision by now.
Even as I write this post I recognize how silly it is to so impatient. A decision is being made concerning the welfare of two churches. That can't be taken lightly! That's it! It's not about me at all. Whether or not I am the one chosen to take a particular position is up to God and the men He has entrusted with that decision. I WILL wait for the Lord! (But I sure do wish He'd hurry and let me know what that decision is!)
Do you remember as a kid how long it was from one birthday to the next? Do you recall having to wait until Christmas came to get to open the presents under the tree? Well, that's what I'm experiencing right now. I think I know the answer to what I'm waiting for. But until that answer comes it's hard not be anxious.
Yes, I know, the Lord told us not be anxious or worry about anything. Yes, I'm aware that patience is one of the ingredients of the fruit of the Spirit. That doesn't mean that I've mastered the art of waiting without undue concern. I thought I'd gotten better at that until now...It's been less than 2 weeks since my last contact and for some reason I think they should have made a decision by now.
Even as I write this post I recognize how silly it is to so impatient. A decision is being made concerning the welfare of two churches. That can't be taken lightly! That's it! It's not about me at all. Whether or not I am the one chosen to take a particular position is up to God and the men He has entrusted with that decision. I WILL wait for the Lord! (But I sure do wish He'd hurry and let me know what that decision is!)
Monday, August 31, 2009
Torn Between Two
There's a song from the past that describes a particular dilemma for me. The song is, "Torn Between Two Lovers". NO...I'm not torn between the love of my life, my wife of almost 35 years and someone else! I am completely, totally, head over heals in love with her! Instead it has to do with my feelings about my work.
Life's cirucumstances have pushed me to the point of wondering where I can best serve. As my parents, and Sue's, decline in health would it be best for me to be closer to them? As our grandchidren grow and get involved in new things, would it be good to be close enough to them so that we could be part of those things? OR...is it better to stay where we are and long to be closer to those who are most important to us?
The real question isn't about where we can be most effective in our work. I believe God will use us wherever we are. The real question is whether or not we are willing to continue sacrificing being close (physically) to family and remain in a "comfortable" place to work. (Comfortable is relative depending on what time of year we are experiencing.)
We've prayed about it and prayed about it. No decision is imminent as far as I can tell. Just exactly what is it that I'm looking for? Am I expecting God to open the sky and boom out the answer? Not exactly...but I do expect to hear His calling very clearly. I believe as time passes and churches consider us and we consider them, the answer will be very clear.
In the meantime, I remain torn between two...waiting expectantly for the answer to my dilemma.
Life's cirucumstances have pushed me to the point of wondering where I can best serve. As my parents, and Sue's, decline in health would it be best for me to be closer to them? As our grandchidren grow and get involved in new things, would it be good to be close enough to them so that we could be part of those things? OR...is it better to stay where we are and long to be closer to those who are most important to us?
The real question isn't about where we can be most effective in our work. I believe God will use us wherever we are. The real question is whether or not we are willing to continue sacrificing being close (physically) to family and remain in a "comfortable" place to work. (Comfortable is relative depending on what time of year we are experiencing.)
We've prayed about it and prayed about it. No decision is imminent as far as I can tell. Just exactly what is it that I'm looking for? Am I expecting God to open the sky and boom out the answer? Not exactly...but I do expect to hear His calling very clearly. I believe as time passes and churches consider us and we consider them, the answer will be very clear.
In the meantime, I remain torn between two...waiting expectantly for the answer to my dilemma.
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Contemplating
A few days with my terminally ill father has me contemplating life again. That's not necessarily a bad thing but it does take a lot of energy. Here are some conclusions that I've come to (even though some are rather obvious and may seem trite)...
1) Life is WAY too short. 2) Make sure the last words others hear from you are positive, they may be the last words you speak. 3) Tell the ones you love that you love them...often! You may not get that chance again. 4) Treat your children with respect. They will be the ones making decisions for you when you're old. 5) Cherish the moments you have with the people you love. They are gone way to fast. 6) Record (either in writing or better still in A/V form) the stories you got tired of hearing. You'll treasure the words, and the way they were spoken when that loved one is gone. 7) Pay attention to the lessons you are taught, in word and deed. You'll need to draw on them in a crisis. 8) Share your struggles with others. Their prayers are priceless bits of hope in times of darkness. 9) Talk with God about what hurts. He understands in a unique way and will find a way to give you strength and comfort (even if you don't want to accept it). 10) NEVER pass up the opportunity to see your parents. They WILL NOT live forever.
I am blessed beyond comprehension because of the prayers, thoughts and well-wishes of my friends and Christian family. As my Daddy approaches his final days, I have found comfort in his wisdom, his character and his trust. I can only hope that as he breathes his last I can exhibit the same character of love and faith.
1) Life is WAY too short. 2) Make sure the last words others hear from you are positive, they may be the last words you speak. 3) Tell the ones you love that you love them...often! You may not get that chance again. 4) Treat your children with respect. They will be the ones making decisions for you when you're old. 5) Cherish the moments you have with the people you love. They are gone way to fast. 6) Record (either in writing or better still in A/V form) the stories you got tired of hearing. You'll treasure the words, and the way they were spoken when that loved one is gone. 7) Pay attention to the lessons you are taught, in word and deed. You'll need to draw on them in a crisis. 8) Share your struggles with others. Their prayers are priceless bits of hope in times of darkness. 9) Talk with God about what hurts. He understands in a unique way and will find a way to give you strength and comfort (even if you don't want to accept it). 10) NEVER pass up the opportunity to see your parents. They WILL NOT live forever.
I am blessed beyond comprehension because of the prayers, thoughts and well-wishes of my friends and Christian family. As my Daddy approaches his final days, I have found comfort in his wisdom, his character and his trust. I can only hope that as he breathes his last I can exhibit the same character of love and faith.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
How Great is Our God!
Recent visits to churches outside my own usual stomping grounds have reminded me how truly universal our great God is. These churches, at somewhat differing ends of the theological continuum are filled with people who love each other and want to live for the Lord. They take different approaches, sing songs in different ways and express their praise for God in varying ways, but they show that they truly love God.
I can't help but find some great comfort in that idea. We have historically (since the great fall in the Garden) shoved God into a box that fits our concept of what He ought to be and how He should behave. That box is defined by our own experiences, education, pre-conceived ideas and selfish desires. But when it comes right down to it when we put Him in our box we cut off His great power. When we stop to think about the implications of each of His children putting God in their own little box, it's a wonder that He is able to work in this world at all. After all, each of us limit His ability in our own way.
I don't believe we'll ever get to the point where we allow Him completely out of a box. I don't think we have that ability. Our minds are way too limited, our personal struggles far too great and our selfishness so exceptionally stubborn that probably the best we can hope for is to expand that box to give Him more room to work.
Perhaps the answer to our growing discontent in the church is to find where our boxes overlap. What are the things we can all agree on that God is capable of doing? Are there some limits that others have removed that we could live with? How have larger boxes for God helped other people to be more compassionate, more loving or more accepting of differences? Are there some limits we have relaxed that allow others to see God more clearly? All these questions and so many more could help us to lower the barriers that keep us, God's children, from enjoying the fellowship He has in mind for us...and frankly they might even let us be happy with the life God has given us regardless of what's taking place in that life.
I can't help but find some great comfort in that idea. We have historically (since the great fall in the Garden) shoved God into a box that fits our concept of what He ought to be and how He should behave. That box is defined by our own experiences, education, pre-conceived ideas and selfish desires. But when it comes right down to it when we put Him in our box we cut off His great power. When we stop to think about the implications of each of His children putting God in their own little box, it's a wonder that He is able to work in this world at all. After all, each of us limit His ability in our own way.
I don't believe we'll ever get to the point where we allow Him completely out of a box. I don't think we have that ability. Our minds are way too limited, our personal struggles far too great and our selfishness so exceptionally stubborn that probably the best we can hope for is to expand that box to give Him more room to work.
Perhaps the answer to our growing discontent in the church is to find where our boxes overlap. What are the things we can all agree on that God is capable of doing? Are there some limits that others have removed that we could live with? How have larger boxes for God helped other people to be more compassionate, more loving or more accepting of differences? Are there some limits we have relaxed that allow others to see God more clearly? All these questions and so many more could help us to lower the barriers that keep us, God's children, from enjoying the fellowship He has in mind for us...and frankly they might even let us be happy with the life God has given us regardless of what's taking place in that life.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Happies from God
I'm often surprised by people's responses to some of my sermons. Frankly there are times when I wonder if anyone is listening. It's at those times when someone happens to "pop up" and tell me how something I said has changed their life. It came this last Sunday from a lady who said, "you turned on a light bulb for me" with a sermon from two or three weeks ago.
I suppose that what surprises me most is that God has chosen to use ME as a tool to reach some hearts. After all, I know what's in my own heart better than anyone. It's humbling to think that God can take the person I know and make something good for someone else out of him. That gives me more hope than a hundred sermons ever could.
I believe that God finds pleasure in giving us what my Ministry Assistant calls "happies". The little reminders that He's still working in our lives, the thank you's from people you didn't know were paying attention, the hugs when you need them the most. He finds pleasure in that because He knows it will ultimately cause us to say "thank you" to Him.
I pray that YOU will experience a happy from God today. I hope you will be able to see it for what it really is...God's reminder that YOU are important to Him and the people He's put around you!
I suppose that what surprises me most is that God has chosen to use ME as a tool to reach some hearts. After all, I know what's in my own heart better than anyone. It's humbling to think that God can take the person I know and make something good for someone else out of him. That gives me more hope than a hundred sermons ever could.
I believe that God finds pleasure in giving us what my Ministry Assistant calls "happies". The little reminders that He's still working in our lives, the thank you's from people you didn't know were paying attention, the hugs when you need them the most. He finds pleasure in that because He knows it will ultimately cause us to say "thank you" to Him.
I pray that YOU will experience a happy from God today. I hope you will be able to see it for what it really is...God's reminder that YOU are important to Him and the people He's put around you!
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Forgiveness and Acceptance
A quick review of Matthew 18:15-17 reveals the fundamentals of how to work out issues between people. The principle is pretty simple...when you have an issue with what someone has said or done, talk to them about it. Of course there are other instructions there that help to clarify what should happen if sinful actions are involved and the person won't listen to you. But that's not my point here.
I've found that when I am bold enough to actually follow this principle I am usually greeted with understanding, acceptance and even a free flow of communication. That doesn't mean that there is always agreement about the issue. But at least when one on one exchange takes place there is mutual understanding and often a much better relationship as a result.
There are times that perhaps I'm too bold in addressing those disagreements. I hope that can be forgiven as people understand my motive. I try hard not to press others to believe the same way I do about something. In fact, I've been proven wrong about many things and have changed my mind because of the free flowing communication that resulted from one on one conversations.
When it comes to forgiveness the absolute best way to handle it is one on one conversation that reveals the heart. Hopefully that kind of interaction and exchange will lead to acceptance between individuals even when they disagree with each other.
I've found that when I am bold enough to actually follow this principle I am usually greeted with understanding, acceptance and even a free flow of communication. That doesn't mean that there is always agreement about the issue. But at least when one on one exchange takes place there is mutual understanding and often a much better relationship as a result.
There are times that perhaps I'm too bold in addressing those disagreements. I hope that can be forgiven as people understand my motive. I try hard not to press others to believe the same way I do about something. In fact, I've been proven wrong about many things and have changed my mind because of the free flowing communication that resulted from one on one conversations.
When it comes to forgiveness the absolute best way to handle it is one on one conversation that reveals the heart. Hopefully that kind of interaction and exchange will lead to acceptance between individuals even when they disagree with each other.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Moving Forward
What does it mean to move forward? In the strictest sense it means not to move backward or to the side. But sometimes, in order to overcome an obstacle that stands in the way of progress we have to back up and try a different route.
For instance, when I was on a field exercise with a forward operating radar unit we were assigned the task of taking a particular spot of ground that would be used as our base of operations. We were only about 300 yards from the site but were faced with thick woods and a rather daunting crevasse between us and that open spot. After some initial reconnaissance it became obvious that the best way to accomplish our goal was to back out of our position and find another entrance from a different direction. While it took us a long time to gain that ground, the alternate route proved more than acceptable for the vehicles that would follow and the ability to defend our route.
As I look at the challenges that face my own spiritual growth I often find that the best way to move forward is to retreat, reconsider and re-attack. Perhaps it entails a new look at an old passage. Maybe it means finding a different place to serve. Or it could even mean going over the same ground with a renewed purpose.
The truth is, my spiritual progress is slow at best. But it is NOT dependent on me always moving forward. It IS based however on whether or not I'm willing to allow the Lord to be the Point Man. He, after all, has the eternal GPS that shows the best route to the destination.
My Lord and my God, lead me in the paths of righteousness that You have prepared. Help me to remain focused on the footprints You have set and to trust Your directions. Help me to be a willing follower as You carry me through the places I cannot navigate. Allow me Lord to humbly accept the pace and direction You have cast. Amen.
For instance, when I was on a field exercise with a forward operating radar unit we were assigned the task of taking a particular spot of ground that would be used as our base of operations. We were only about 300 yards from the site but were faced with thick woods and a rather daunting crevasse between us and that open spot. After some initial reconnaissance it became obvious that the best way to accomplish our goal was to back out of our position and find another entrance from a different direction. While it took us a long time to gain that ground, the alternate route proved more than acceptable for the vehicles that would follow and the ability to defend our route.
As I look at the challenges that face my own spiritual growth I often find that the best way to move forward is to retreat, reconsider and re-attack. Perhaps it entails a new look at an old passage. Maybe it means finding a different place to serve. Or it could even mean going over the same ground with a renewed purpose.
The truth is, my spiritual progress is slow at best. But it is NOT dependent on me always moving forward. It IS based however on whether or not I'm willing to allow the Lord to be the Point Man. He, after all, has the eternal GPS that shows the best route to the destination.
My Lord and my God, lead me in the paths of righteousness that You have prepared. Help me to remain focused on the footprints You have set and to trust Your directions. Help me to be a willing follower as You carry me through the places I cannot navigate. Allow me Lord to humbly accept the pace and direction You have cast. Amen.
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